Mentally preparing for 2 under 2

I’m about to have my second boy in about 7 weeks. I have an almost 16 month old at home. Full time stay at home mom. Today at my pre/post natal group my little guy just wanted to explore the building. He’s at the point of having a small meltdown when I take him away from danger or things that he really enjoys. Will throw his body or try hit me. After redirecting him or waiting a minute or 2 he usually will find something new to entertain himself. I was in a rush because of another appointment right after my mommy group. I was feeling stressed and worried how am I going to handle 2 of them. Ive been telling myself it won’t be easy. It’s not meant to be easy. What did I get myself into? Can I do this?

Lessons learnt... do not schedule things back to back. Rushing around causes me stress.

I worry people are going to judge me when they see my son having a meltdown but I try to see him in the most positive light. That he just wants to explore and is curious and isn’t able to self regulate. I’m probably making it sound worse than it actually is.

Anyway I’m looking for some advice or words of encouragement as our family grows. I try to focus on the good things and appreciate the support that I do get.

Tonight I’m going for a quick yoga session, a cultural activity then finish off by taking my boy swimming.

Trying to make sure I have snacks, toys, car equipped and diaper bag all ready to go for when I’m mommin 2 under 2