How does everyone buy a house?

Di

Not sure if this is the right group but if need to be moved then sure!

Anyways... my husband & I have been interested in buying a house. We currently live in CT which is wicked expensive! However we have called different banks & asked about financing and it seems absolutely impossible to buy a house!!

Like how do you guys do it? 3.5% down or escrow accounts or 203k loans or building.. like I need advice how can we make it happen for ourselves?

Update: maybe I should of provided more context.. credit wise we are good & we are also first time homebuyers however we don’t have much money saved. We rent & pay $1695 which is wicked expensive. Paying rent, 2 car notes, preparing for our baby, household bills, groceries etc. it makes it nearly impossible to save. I thought being a first time homebuyer we can qualify for 100% financing but you still need to have an escrow account which doesn’t make much sense to me!