I'm a SAHM with a 17 month old and 35 weeks pregnant. My fiance works from 8am till 5pm Monday to Friday.

Am I being unreasonable asking him to help me out with chores every now and again. I do everything everyday never ask him for anything. Or help with anything. But tonight after dinner we built an item of baby furniture together then i put our daughter to bed and I asked him to wash the pots whilst I went in the shower then when I'm done I'll put them away and clean the sides down. If I never went in the shower and did the washing up and cleaning up after dinner I wouldn't have had the energy to have a shower when I was done. I literally have to time my showers around her bed time and him coming home from work as the bathroom is right next to her bedroom so it disturbs her sometimes so I dont shower during nap time as I'm constantly in and out putting her back down so I wait for him to be home so he can go to her if she is stirs. Plus it's my little bit of me time. He said he might do it. I've just messaged him asking if hes done it as I've just finished drying my hair and going downstairs now and hes replied saying no. Am I being unreasonable asking him to wash up? I now feel annoyed that he couldn't have done that simple little chore to help me out. He finishes work and his day is over he comes home plays with our daughter chills out and goes to bed everyday. My day doesn't end until I'm in bed even then I'm still thinking of the next day. So I'm kind of annoyed he didn't spare 10 mins to wash up. Should I be?