Okay so I’m 20 years old and never really had a boyfriend or anything me and this guy let’s call him Oliver. Oliver and me are planning to have sex this summer and I don’t even know how I should react to anything or what to do or how should I feel or anything at all. I need all the help I can get! Other things you should know me and family are religious and my parents are kinda strict and I’m going down there for the summer and staying at there house there is a hotel we could get but I don’t know if they will let us be alone until about the end of summer. What should I do about them and him please help. And yes I know I’m 20 and shouldn’t care about what they say but you got to understand I haven’t really done anything without them knowing about it and being okay with it. Please help with anything that you can.