Am I going through a relationship breakdown?

Question

I need to get this off my chest. And DO NOT comment ‘speak to him about it’ because I have multiple times and he said everything is fine.
So, I’ve been with my partner for just over 4 years and we have an almost 2 year old together. The minute I met him I was head over heels. I love that guy to death and I wouldn’t want anyone else. 
Recently he doesn’t want to have sex with me, he doesn’t want to cuddle in bed anymore he has turned out to be the least affectionate guy ever and he was the total opposite this time last year or even just 6 months ago. As I’ve said he said everything Is fine between us but I don’t think so, I need to feel loved, I need to be told I’m loved or I start feeling insecure and unwanted, that’s how I am right now. 
Don’t know what the purpose is in this post I just hope someone has words of wisdom or advice.

Answer

Does he realize how upset u r? When telling him how u feel don’t beat around the bush and full out show him that ur really hurt and feeling unwanted. If he cares about u he won’t want u feeling that way.

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Hi, I went through something like this in my last relationship, we didn’t work out for other reasons but I’ll share my experience with you. I’d been going out with my boyfriend for around a year and we used to have an incredible sex life and suddenly the intimacy just stopped. It made me feel shit about myself and the relationship and made me feel like I could never do anything right to regain this affection. I brought it up to him numerous times and would just get passive aggressive ‘sorrys’ in response acting as if it was my fault and then him just saying he doesn’t have time for it. Again, this made me feel even worse. Eventually, around a year later when we were going through a really rough patch he explained to me how he’d been having a really depressed period, how he had no motivation for anything and had been taking that out on me unintentionally. In times like this you need to check on your partners mental health, mental health in men is so important and goes unspoken so many times, and the last thing you’d want is something like that to be happening, for you to be blaming yourself and then something worse happening. 
If you know for certain on the other hand that something like this isn’t the case, you need to really think about why you’re with this man. I know you love him to death and I’m not saying end the relationship but I’m saying if you’ve spoken to him about it and he still hasn’t offered you a valid explanation or taken your feelings into account, does he deserve your time and feelings? Why would he do this to someone he loved? You need to sit him down and show your emotions, cry if you want to, tell him exactly what he’s doing to you by not talking to you and how he’s making you feel. If he still doesn’t change or talk, you need to re-evaluate the relationship. 
Good luck to you my girl I know how awful this situation can be. But I’m here if you need to talk about it x

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You said "do not say speak to him about it" but you need to if you haven't already. No one can really help your situation but you and your SO

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If he says it’s fine then it prob is

Am I going through a relationship breakdown?

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