Can you help mehh ?

Hi everyone. I need some advice/tips please.

So i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, have a baby together. We dont live together as hes not ready to move out 🙄 Anyway..

For the past year nearly he hasnt been the same towards me. Doesnt show me that he loves me, never says it, never gives me his time, attention or love. I see him ONCE a week and thats only for a few hours.. he doesnt like staying at my house anymore because he doesnt want to wake our baby up when he gets up for work (hes always been the one for excuses) , he lies about the most pettiest thing, he talks to me like 💩, sometimes ignores my messages, has ago at me if i ask him a question even if its something just in general. He never wants to do anything with the kids (he has a kid from a previous relationship) and never wants to do anything as a couple. Never wants to spend time with me, he sees his friends everyday. Always miserable around me, acts like he doesnt care about me. I know he isnt inlove with me i can just tell he doesnt even have to say it, how he acts towards me says it all. If i tell him how i feel i get accused of "maoning" and he says if i "moan" it will just make him worse.. * i didnt know expressing how i feel is moaning but i guess we learn something new everyday!? 🤷🏻‍♀️*

He never kisses or cuddles me ever!

Hes destroying our relationship yet he blames it on me. Only wants to know me when it suits him and thats only when he wants sex. This boy is toxic to me !! Ive now realised it isnt me, after all this time i always blamed it on myself thinking i wasnt good enough, pretty enough, skinny enough but i have finally opened my eyes and realised its him!! I know he doesnt care about me and ikmow he isnt inlove with me. Please people how the f**k do i stop loving this selfish mother fucker ?? I dont want to love him anymore because I KNOW that i deserve better and he DOESNT deserve me !! How do i stop caring? Its always me calling and texting first, never him! He clearly thinks now that i have a baby im trapped... hes wrong!!! I need to stop loving this selfis piece of shit.

PS. Hes never brought a single damn thing for our baby!! No milk, nappys, NOTHING!! Always buys his other kid toys.