Tubal ligation

Sooo I’m very positive about being done with having anymore babies after this one. I got my boy and now I’m getting my little girl. I want my body back I want to start my career I just wanna go back to normal. Plus it’s so expensive to have more kids.

I mentioned to my midwife and OB that I wanted to get it done. They said it can be discussed at my 6 week post appointment they usually do it 8-10 weeks after birth. But they said I’m young (I’m 28) and usually some doctors are more willing to do it to a woman that is 35+ and had at least 3 children. And think most women my age would end up regretting it. I definitely do not want to start over again especially after 30 no way. And I cannot deal with birth control (they tried to suggest it to me) I understand that it is expensive to reverse it and it is not 100% that it will work again. And I am completely fine with it! I definitely don’t think 28 is that young anymore either. 😐 really hoping that I’ll be able to get that procedure done! 🤞 ok done venting a little lol