Do I have the right to be mad?

Me and my husband were eating dinner..

My husband was messing around and getting stuff eveywhere I said calmly “can you please stop you are getting stuff all over the ground.”

His response “well at least you have something to do”

(As in sweep)

Now I took it as well I have nothing better to do with my life then clean up after a grown man, and I love cleaning up after him.

So I got upset and started arguing a bit

He threw the ziplock bag of cilantro and said I didn’t understand his point and went in our room and slammed the door...

Now I’m not one of playing victim but I feel like I can be upset over this

I literally mad myself a cocktail and now ranting on eve 🙃😂