Done with the courts

Someone send help because I’m going crazy. I live in Colorado which is a dads state. It sucks. My baby daddy keeps messing up with every single thing that we do. He didn’t file any of the papers by the due date, which he had a 2 months notice (they gave him an extension). He messed up with filling all the papers (he put himself as the petitioner, which I am because I filed first). He won’t give me any finical information (even though he filed a sworn finical statement saying he gave me all of it. The courts made me file a motion to compel but hasn’t done anything). He messed up on the very second court ordered visit because he was too drunk and passed out. I have to supervise visits at his house even though I’m not comfortable. (I even submitted a paper of every visit he canceled on in my sons 5 months of life which was 2/4 or 3/4 visits per week. And now everything is on hold and can’t be finalized (which included child support) because he won’t give the courts his social. How does he keep getting away with everything? I’m so annoyed and just done. I have been through hell and back this last year and cannot catch a break 😭🙄