Breastfeeding 24/7.. neglecting eldest sibling 😢

Hey ladies!

So my little one is wanting to nurse all day and night and if he’s not attached to my boobs he’s crying. I feel like I never get to spend time with my eldest son. He’s only 18 months old and although he loves his baby brother, he gets so frustrated that momma always has him attached to her. He wants to be in my lap but little baby brother is there, or he wants me to pick him up but I can’t because of my c-section or I have baby in the carrier. It’s sucks. My baby cries when my husband holds him after only 3 minutes. So now my husband has taken over all of the things I used to do with my eldest..

So ladies, when will my youngest be able to be laid down for a while without screaming (I don’t remember going through this with my eldest because he was bottle fed my breast milk ) and any tips so I can spend more time with my eldest? It’s making me so sad and regret having them so close in age. My 18 month old needs his mommy and I feel like I’m neglecting him.