Ive been w my husband for 5yrs now, hes been abusive since the beginning, but i never call the cops on him. I did had an order of protection once, but i took it off.

Yesterday he was drinking when we were at his moms place, he got mad at what his mom said, and wanted to leave. So we left, i couldnt stop him from leaving, being buzzed. And i also dont have my license yet. But i still insisted to drive, he refuse to let me drive, threatening me, so i let him drive. As he was driving in the highway, he took off his seat belt, drove fast, and said hes going to kill us all. He was also accusing me of cheating on him, and yell at me constantly that im the devil. That hes more atttactive than i , he can and will cheat on me.

He began to exit the highway, parked in a street, and told me to get out. Telling me he no longer wants to marry me, he wants to move on, and find someone more Godly than i am. I got out, and was taking my 2yr out with me. He told me not to take the kids or he will kill me. I didnt listen and quickly took out my son. But he dragged my son away from me, got out the car, and starting punching my head multiple times. Pinning my forehead against the street. There were so many cars, but no one dared to call the cops.

There was a police siren and he thought it was for him. So he quickly got in the car, but it wasnt for him. So he told me to get back in the car. I refused and he drove off.

Then i called the cops on him. Hes in jail now and my kids are safe w me. He said i betrayed him, and did him very wrong. I will get punished by God he said.

I feel bad for calling the cops on him. I feel like i destroyed his life. He lost his VA benefits, the apartment he got for free from a veteran program, and the house they were going to give to him.

Did i destroy his life? Was i wrong?