Marriage and a baby

Kelsey • ICU Nurse 👩‍⚕️ Baby Girl: Miss Maggie “Mermaid” 🧜🏻‍♀️🧜🏻‍♀️ 11/24/19

So my boyfriend and I have been together 11 years. We have always talked about getting married he just hasn’t popped the question (I’ve been told he has the ring though 🤷🏼‍♀️). I’m now 14+4 weeks pregnant. We are seriously discussing just heading to the courthouse and getting married now, before baby gets here and having a wedding and reception later down the road after baby. Part of me is worried everyone thinks we would just be doing it because we have a baby on the way, and part me is like I don’t care anymore we’ve been together so damn long why does it matter?? What’s everyone else think? Also, please spare me the why has he waited so long 🙄 I know it’s been forever but we have never been in a rush and we are clearly doing things backwards.