I’m trying to clean the house and get things ready for baby and I feel like I’m fighting a losing battle 😞. Every time I make any progress my husband has created another mess that sets me back 2 steps or I spend so much time on maintenance I’m too exhausted to start a new project. I’ve asked him, I’ve begged, I’ve cried and no change. And it’s not like things are going to get any easier when baby #2 gets here. I’m probably being petty but honestly he never puts the dishes in the dishwasher or away, hell in the sink would be a huge improvement, I find dishes in the.l bathroom, bedroom, living room& basement. Same with clothes! Just put them in the hamper in the bedroom or bathroom nope! On the floor in various rooms or hanging on the side of the couch or the baby’s crib it’s so frustrating! Not mention he doesn’t even flush the toilet. He’s plays on phone and gets distracted and forgets he says.

I’m at my breaking point and he doesn’t see it as a problem! He just keeps saying oh we will both be home for a month once baby gets here we’ll get so much done! REALLY WITH A 3 yo and NEWBORN???!!!! I don’t think so