31 weeks pregnant and amusement park?

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So I’m 31 weeks pregnant and I’m starting to get aggravated at how everyone (including my husband) seems to think I can just go and do whatever I want. This heat is already kicking my butt! I hate to be like that but our friends mentioned us going to a amusement park and my husband is like yeah, yeah and gets all excited. While I’m over here thinking heck no! It just bothers me cause I feel like he just thinks I can do whatever. I’m already swelling like crazy. I can’t ride on the rides so why would I want to go and be miserable? Sorry I honestly just had to vent cause I’m starting to get annoyed. This isn’t the first time it’s happened. And our friends just look at me like I’m crazy for saying no. Am I overreacting by being upset?

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I would send him and go do something fun by yourself!

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Dont go. Let hubby go if he wants but theres absolutely nothing wrong with saying hey I'm super pregnant and I cant ride anything anyways and the idea of being out in the heat on my feet all day is just not sounding like fun for me. Thank you for inviting me but I'm going to have to pass this time. ....maybe add you're welcome to come over anytime or we can go out for breakfast or lunch before you all go to the amusement park. 
Its completely acceptable and I recommend to practice saying no now to plans that are just too much. When baby comes the same thing will happen. Most people understand and those that dont will one day and if they don't they need to just get over it and respect boundaries

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Oh god that’s literally the last place I’d want to be. Too hot, you can’t do rides. No thanks.

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My husband is the opposite. He says you should be in the house with your feet up. He acts like being pregnant is an end of the world thing. And I’m going out because I won’t be able to as much as when baby is here. Last week I dragged him to a music festival. I’d prob go to the park and eat and sit in the shade. But trust your body / instincts.

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Literally tho there’s no point in you going other than to watch everyone else have all the fun?? Heck no! I’m also 31 weeks today and I’m just plain waddling on my walk to class. You’re absolutely right. Walking around a park like that in the heat would be miserable.

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That is the last place I would want to be at. My feet are swollen and I couldn’t imagine walking around all day in the heat. I would advise against it.

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My fiancé doesn’t even let me help with the dishes. I definitely feel your frustration though. My ex used to just go party and drink all the time and then get mad if I didn’t want to be around a bunch of booze and smoke while pregnant. And of course all of his friends thought I was stuck up and a huge bitch because I refused to come. 🤦🏻‍♀️ I just don’t understand why it’s so hard for some people to get that there’s things we just can’t or aren’t comfortable/interested in doing while we’re pregnant.

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My best friend wanted to get me out of the house so I was like ya let’s go shopping and get lunch. We did a round around target and I was so exhausted from just that 20 minutes of walking lol

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I have 3 kids and expecting my fourth. We have passes to universal and are planning a trip in a couple weeks. We are going to stay at a hotel with a suite and nice pool area. I plan to stay back with the two year old and float away 😂

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Your husband sounds like he wants to go so let him go. Maybe they thought you were saying no to both of you going? You can do something on your own - either relax at home or go for a massage :)

31 weeks pregnant and amusement park?

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