Is it rude for me to share pregnancy updates ?!

One of my friends is ttc for a long time. I only have like 2 close girlfriends. They ask about baby update from time to time, I’m only 11wks. I update one of them more than the other. I feel bad updating my other friend who has fertility issues, I feel like I’m rubbing it in her face maybe ??! So I wait for her to ask first, then I tell her how I feel. But if she doesn’t, I don’t tell her anything. Am I overthinking ?

Like today I did my first ultra sound and I want to send her a picture but I feel it’s rude ?!

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Thank you for your response ladies.

I will just wait for her to ask.

Glad to know I was being ridiculous!