Okay I’m tired of seeing women told that they need to sit down and talk with a person that treats them so damn bad, or even slightly bad. I’m sorry but I have a limited number of days that imma be here on this earth and I’ll be damned if it’s spent trying to make someone understand how I feel or how what they did made me feel. It’s not childish or irresponsible to know your fucking worth. We are strong and brave fuck we push men out of our bodies for the fuck of it and were still allowing people to treat us any type of way bc it’s the adult thing to do???! NO. Stop forcing yourself into a situation that you don’t want to live the rest of your life in. If it’s a fixable problem then sure but if you try to fix it and all it does is continue, do not say “okay I just have to deal with it” Fuck no you, me, we deserve better. Stop forcing other women to stick around, stop forcing yourself, stop forcing the love. This is ridiculous y’all would rather stay in a toxic place bc “it’s not that bad” instead of moving tf on, yes a nice cordial convo is all find and good I get that. But when that convo turns into something else it’s is okay to go, to leave, to find a new you a new life, it is okay to leave family, it is okay to leave friends, it is okay to leave jobs. Stop forcing your unhappy with the thought of it’ll just get better. This isn’t some fairy tale. Damn when someone shows you their true colors fucking believe it. The adult thing to do is be selfish with our happiness. And if something isn’t making us happy to the point we can share that happiness let it tf go.