My husband is too tired to have sex. We aim to do it every other night. He knows this. And I can't remind him the day we're supposed to do it because he says I'm putting too much pressure on him and he won't get hard. But if I don't remind him or hint at it then he'll forget or fall asleep hoping I forget (which I never do, duh!) Its causing major strain in our relationship because we've been trying to conceive for 1.5yrs. I've tried everything and I feel like he's clueless, doesn't even try. It's very frustrating! Any solutions to get him in the mood more easily? Cock ring? We need help.