Husband who doesn’t understand kids

My husband has this problem where he can’t stand other people being in bad moods. Our son, who’s 1.5 obviously doesn’t know how to control/deal with his emotions. He’s also really sick right now and has been the last week, so he’s been moody and whiny and hard to deal with. My husband sent me this this morning when I asked why he was in a bad mood before I went to work..

Does anyone else have a husband who is like this? Who just loses it when their kids cry or aren’t happy for any reason? Idk what to do at this point because it’s sooo draining for me to have to deal with him getting mad at our son every time he’s not happy, and therefore ends up not talking to me and then I’m stuck in the middle.