A man perspective when founding out wife/girlfriend pregnant

Delicate

I'm having a hard time dealing with feeling alone during my pregnancy. I'm just wondering why my man is so distance. I'm at the point where I'm like is this just for now or is he not going to be in the baby life all together. Yes we were both on board with having a baby but I just dont feel like he cares. He hasn't asked about the baby or my appointment and let alone me and how I'm doing.

Did you men distance yourself or became more involved when you found out your wife or girlfriend was pregnant? If so you distance yourself what was the reason.