How pissed would you be?! I’m on FIRE!!

Question

20 weeks pregnant.
18 month old.
I made a couple extra French toast slices yesterday so I could give it to my daughter the next morning. She’s a bear and hates waiting and is starving in the mornings.  Woke up this morning to a dirty dish in my sink.... the husband ate the French toast 🤬
, left the dishes in the sink (should be in the dishwasher) and took my last Mr. Pibb (which I can’t get where I live). I’m on fire and my husband thinks I’m being crazy. 
What are your thoughts?

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Cut the man a little slack. Sounds like a situation that warrants some mild irritation. In my house, I would tease him about for the next several months.
A few weeks ago, I made muffins that I was craving for a snack. I was being nice and serving the other 5 members of my family before myself. My Father-in-law and my kids were thankful and dug right in. I was so anxious to eat mine, but my husband (who was exhausted from being up over 36 hours between work and our remodeling project) was being annoying. First he asked for a fork. Then he asked for a glass of milk. Then, after I got out a glass, he said he wanted a paper cup. That was the last straw. I snapped "You are just going to have to drink it out of the cup I gave you!"
It has been weeks and he is still teasing me about how he better not ask me for a glass of milk because I will go off on him. BUT.. the reality is that we did talk about it, and now he understands that I was hungry and looking forward to my muffin and frustrated that he was being so picky when everyone else was not. I understand that he was very tired and otherwise would have got up to get his own milk.
Bottom line, don't sweat the small stuff and have fun with life! We are getting older and have been through some health stuff. I realize that one day my husband might not be here, and then I will miss the opportunity to delay my muffin and serve him a glass of milk. Save the fie for the big, important, "hill to die on" things. French toast and soda is not one of them.

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I have gotten so mad at my SO for eating left overs that I was looking forward to. The worst part about it was that he ate MOST of it and left 2 bites and put it back in the fridge. When I went to open it, thinking i was going to enjoy my half a burger, there was only 2 bites left. I yelled at him when he got home telling him that I specifically saved it because we did not have anything else I wanted in the house and that if he ate it, he should have thrown out the box and not put it back! He told me that usually I don't eat my leftovers (which is true) but now that I'm pregnant, he needs to ask first before he eats anything that I have left in the fridge!
I know how frustrating it is, set rules for leftovers!

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He wrong!!!!  I would be Livid!!! He needs to cook you and your daughter French toast and needs to go find and buy you more Pibbs

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How the hell was he supposed to know you didn’t wake up and make the ft for him ? He’s your husband you are supposed to cook for the entire family not just the kids ? And taking the last goody ? Who gives a shit you can’t get more when you get more. Its not like he cheated on you ? He was hungry ...

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I say calm down. Did you specifically tell him why you we're saving them? I definitely wouldn't be that mad at my husband, even if he knew what it was for. Try to be a forgiving person. Especially if he's not being a jerk about it and if he's sorry.

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