Do you need all the details? Do you just want a number? Do you even care?

Everyone has different preferences...duh! I want to know what you think.

My bf and I have been together for 3 years, living together and a couple. He knew a little about my sexual past like a month in. I’ve always been faithful to him. But now he’s sex shaming me for things I did before him. Because I told him some stories of things I did, he said he needed to know the truth and know all of it. I don’t know how to react to him. I want to be 100% honest and open with him. I defend myself and level with him and explain and let him deal on his own. All of it. This mess feels so unnecessary to me and I’m starting to feel cold now because I don’t think he even needs all these details and don’t care that he’s upset or whatever. I feel unjustifiably judged.