My mom is old. She’s 65. She lives alone.

We both give her money every month $1000. Which is very enough for her living cost here in my country.

(Eating, paying for electricity & water bill) her car installment and house installment, life insurance, health insurance is my amenability.

Since april. My mom always asks (insist) me to let her work as uber motorcycle driver. (She had that job before when we were very poor. But now im comfortable enough to support all of her living cost) Which only gave her $250/month. And i’m not agree with that.

The reason is:

- if someday she had accidents it’s gonna be me to pay everything. (She had several accidents back then)

- cause she has bad driving behavior.

- i feel ashamed in front of my colleague and everybody. I dont want they to think i’m irresponsible for my own mom’s living (til to let her work as driver)

I have offered my mom what if i open her small business store which is much safety for her health. Like small bakery. But she declined it. I also have offered her to take profit from the stuff some of new company needed. I’m going to be the one who pay for the capital price.

But she declined again. I want her to stop working with hard and start working smart since she’s no longer young anymore.

But she insist to be uber motorcycle driver again.

not with my sister, she agrees with what my mom wants. As long as it makes her happy. She think if our mom had accidents, it’s okay. Just take her to hospital and treat her wound. Finish.

My sis is very liberal person.

She only thinks about happiness.

The only consideration is if it’s only make you happy or not. While i’m not.

Now i and sis and mom is in hostile.

But ofc my mom is on sis’s side.

**Ladies, correct me of i’m wrong. And give reason.

If you think im not wrong, help me how to change my sister’s mind.**

Cause mom kinda more comply my sis rather than me since my sis always say yes to whatever she wants as long as it makes her happy.