So when my and my boyfriend first started dating we saw each other every day after both of us had finished work. We ended up taking a break but ended up back together and in a strong relationship. I found out I was pregnant a few months into dating (I told him to wear a condom, but I told I was not able to conceive and he thought it would never happen as did I, very irresponsible I know) but we’re both over the moon about it and can’t wait to meet her. However, our relationship right now just feels like it’s at a dead end. He doesn’t ask to see me or make plans we can go weeks without seeing each other, he’ll tell me to call but his phones always off and whenever he comes to see me his phone always happens to be dead too so I can’t look at it or anything [i had caught him texting girls at the start of our relationship, and it was him that made it very clear I could always ask for his phone because it was never gona happen again] anyway, he works until 6 every day but instead of spending time with me he’ll disappear all day then message me and my messages only deliver on whatsapp when he’s at home due to not having WiFi outside at 4am every day, I’ve spoken to him about it, he’ll just turn up at my house sweet talk me and then everything goes right back to how it was the next day. My gut is telling me to run because he might be cheating but my heart is telling me to make things work, this has been going on for almost 3/4 months now.

I feel like I keep getting let down and I can’t rely on him. When I’m with him I’m just head over heels in love and can’t see all the negative shit that happens when he’s not here and how I’m actually being treated. I can’t get in touch with him through the phone when I need him, I fainted in the middle of town and was taken to hospital to check on baby and every time I rang panicking his phone went straight to voice mail I was in the hospital almost 7 hours by myself.

I don’t want to stay in a relationship just because we’re having a baby together but I don’t know if it’s the right thing to do to leave. I know he’s going to be an amazing dad because I see how he is with his younger brother. And I still love him so much but I think that I’m being blinded and I just need to leave. My child will never be used as a pawn and I’m thinking only of my child.

What I need is RELATIONSHIP advice

Am I doing the right thing or should I give him another chance