I have no idea when I conceived!

AND I'm having my normal pre-af spotting :(

In an effort to "let it gooooo!" I haven't been 100% with my glow logging. (I know we had sex on June 5th or 6th... but I didnt put it down) also I had a VERY +opk on the 8th. (Although I remember checking my cervix and it felt more closed than usual for ovulation)

Had a very strong bfp (both lines about the same intensity) on fathers day. That would have put me at 7/8dpo which seems to early for that strong of a +.

I'm wondering if maybe I O'ed early and the opk was just picking up those levels?

OR I kind of wonder if I conceived on my previous cycle and I'm just one of those few ppl that get a period while they're preggo. Although at was heavy at times, I remember my last period was a bit off. It seemed to "come and go" in its heaviness which is NOT normal for me, and I'm pretty sure it ended earlier than anticipated (although i didnt track it) AND the +opk was the only opk I took and it was very +!

I went in yesterday to have my hcg and progesterone checked. (Still waiting for results). I am SO worried about the spotting! It is IDENTICAL to my pre-af spotting (including getting slightly more pronounced today) and I've never had spotting w either of my previous pregnancies. (The last one ended in a chemical in jan)

Took another test this morning (48 hrs after the first) and they look identical so hopefully ehats a good thing?)

Thoughts? Stories? Advice? Words of wisdom?!

I'll take anything cause I'm freaking out!