SHES DOING WHAT?!

So me and my SO have a 2, soon to be 3 year old son. He has a 8-9 month old by a second girl that moved to Louisiana (we live in Alabama) and she HATES me. Me and my SO had separate and eventually started seeing other people. Well, the person he started seeing ended up getting pregnant by him. They didn’t know until she went back home to Louisiana.

They eventually grew troubles and I was betrayed in my relationship so we both ended our relationships around the same time. I was constantly around him and we ended up giving each other another chance. When in reality the whole time, she was bad mouthing me to him calling me names like a child saying I was fat, ugly, and a POS mother. She was putting stuff in his head which caused me and him to separate again. She admitted to breaking us up both times and said she didn’t regret it at all. She now has 4 kids by 4 different men. All of them are drug addicts besides my SO.

Well, he tried having something to do with their child but she wouldn’t meet up with him, she wouldn’t video call him, she wouldn’t even text him and tell him how the child is doing because every time, she says “you can’t see or talk to the baby unless SHE is gone (she as in me)”

At this point I was living with him. We were perfectly fine. And I told him that it was sorry as hell to use his child to destroy a relationship JUST because they still had feelings for him. He made the decision to tell her that he will no longer have contact with her, BUT HE WOULD STILL SEND HER STUFF THROUGH THE MAIL FOR THE CHILD.

Well, we had a bad patch a while back and turns out, she was texting him AGAIN telling him she still loved him and cared about him and he agreed he still had feelings for her but he didn’t love her, that he only loved his children. She was still sending nudes and telling him she wanted to be a family again and STILL bad mouthing towards me, KNOWING WE WERE TRYING TO MAKE THINGS WORK.

He cut all contact out with her, found out everything about his daughter through his mom, he would send his child stuff through the mail, everything was working out great like that.

Today, I was in my interview for a job for about 20 minutes, I came out and get back in the vehicle with him, and he says “I don’t know why but I just got depressed all of a sudden. I’m going to message (let’s call her Bee)(his baby momma) and see how my daughters doing.”

my interview was over at 2:30pm. It’s now 7:45pm where I live and he has been on his phone ignoring me over her. I asked him to take out the garbage, no reply, so I done it myself. Asked him to feed our dogs, I got ignored, I done it myself. The only thing he has said to me was “go clean the house”.

He went to sleep about 30 minutes ago so I checked his messages. SHE WAS TALKING SHIT ABOUT ME AGAIN.

Him: how is my daughter doing?

Her: Seriously?

Him: never mind I guess I won’t ask you again.

Her: does your SO even know you’re messaging me?

Him: yes of course, she doesn’t mind that I’m asking about my kid.

Her: oh she’s finally growing up? Hmm.

Him: yep.

She tells him how the child is doing and he mentions her boyfriend. And she proceeds to tell him that her boyfriend loves the daughter. And he replies with “that’s good”

Then she send another message:

Her: Can I ask you something without causing a fight?

Y’all, this girl has no clue who I am. She’s never met me. All she knows is she’s broken up our engagement and she’s ruined our relationship when we were trying to patch things up.

I’m currently pregnant and I’m sure my SOs mom has talked down on me and my SO to her.

If she continues to down me to my SO, should I personally message her? Because at this point, I’m BOILING PISSED.