No kids no husband !! Almost 30yrs old

So I know I can’t be alone about this but I’ll be 30yrs old in 9months and I have no kids and I’m not married!!! I’m really feeling some type of way about this. Every guy I come cross lies about being single, lie about how many kids they have!! Lie about the dumbest shit!! I’ve been with a guy in and off close to five years. Boyyy let me tell y’all he is a shit head, a little ass boy in a mans body!! I’m mad I wasted this amount of time with him!! I seen all the red flags all the lies and the manipulating ways but I wanted to look past it because I loved him and he said he loved me but I’m not sure it’s true!! This guy wants to be the man of the house but doesn’t want to work, doesn’t want to do anything around the house!! I want to move on with life and here he is not giving up saying he will change!!! Nope the shit that comes out of his mouth, this fool ain’t going to change!!

I just want to have my dream of having a family and being married.