Hi, my name is Carrie and I’m 16. So I had a question for my ladies’ community: Am I the only one who feels when they’re around other females you have to find pointers about yourself to show off and make yourself seem equal to the group or better? I’ve come to the realization that it might be natural but we women should be standing beside each other as a unit and support group, not as competitors, right? Please tell me I’m not the only one who’s realized this.