Baby shower invites out of state

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My mom's family is all in California and we are in Jersey with most of my dad's family. I know if we were in Cali my aunt's and cousins would be at my shower so figured I'd send them the invite to let them know I was thinking of them, however, one of my friends said that's just "fishing for gifts". I already have the invites so it's not like I'm saving the money by not sending. IDK this whole shower thing is stressing me out

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