I’m lost for words

Around 1:30am my fiancé tried to wake me up because she was sexual bothered. I’m a very deep sleeper and I obviously rolled over and ignored her not on purpose. We live with her parents ( we move out July 30th , thank goodness ) so our sex life has to be kinda planned and rushed which is annoying . So when we woke up this morning she had the worst attitude towards me saying our sex was trash . I explained it’s because #1 we are constantly worrying about if the door is locked during sex / before sex, #2 we have to be quiet , who likes quiet sex ?! , #3 it’s rushed and planned . So she’s been a little tense today and we both agreed maybe it’ll be better when we are in our own place , what do you guys think ?

Also please leave your favorite positions , toy suggestions , etc . !! I would love to hear some sex advice on how you and your partner get off and keep the relationship with a little spice . We are both females a lesbian couple . Also do you talk dirty during sex ? I feel so embarrassed to do it but that’s what she likes and I want to know if others do it .