Perimenopauae and life changes to face

This past year I going through first steps of change I hate the most is hot flash night sweats but as long as I keep up with drug free and hormone free it does help but gave up trying to explain to others I not crazy and I old enough is annoying nerve wrecking cause older women that gone though full think I too young I really not that young yes I do have pre Empy nest cause next year my girl is graduating ha not ready yet for that folks please don’t patronize think I not old enough just cause I don’t have ya side effects in full dramatics experience don’t mean I not going though it I in fact started early for my age but one positive I looking forward to full onset cause I too old I feel To be be crazy to think to want more cause I too bless to have my daughter bur 1 is only I feel God felt I can raise w/ o messing up I have more wisdom more inner positive to share just don’t have energy to chase small kids around that are my own I need to reserve that energy for grandkids much much down the road when my girl find her God bless hubby they start a family etc