Today was the first day since giving birth a week ago I felt good. My sister took me grocery shopping as my husband stayed home with the baby. I am breastfeeding. I pumped so he could feed her while I was out. He only fed her 1 other time because I just got my pump. He had the biggest smile on his face he was able to feed her.  My MIL who I can't stand and my husbands grandmother came over while I was out. I find out his mother fed and changed the baby. I'm fuming because 1 my MIL didn't want me to breastfeed because she wants to help feed the baby and 2 I wanted my husband to bond with my daughter. His mother is so controlling and pushy. My husband won't stand up to her. Is it normal to feel she over stepped her boundary? Or am I crazy?