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I see all my friends make posts and never think twice about how they look because they’re so confident. They have guys wrapped around their finger while I have to try twice as hard. I’m not jealous of what they have it just makes me realize what I’m lacking you know? Is that jealousy? I don’t know I don’t feel like it is.

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No, that's called insecurity. But honestly, do you really want to focus on things such as looks and having guys wrapped around your finger"?

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I think just focus on yourself and learn how to love yourself and stop comparing yourself with other people. This mentality is toxic and will eventually drain the life out of you.

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Why would your goal in life be to have men wrapped around your finger? Maybe that's where you're going wrong, maybe it's not the friends goals to have men wrapped around their fingers so they don't try so hard to impress them, they do things for themselves and for their own enjoyment and that gives off fives of confidence which others are then attracted to, not always in a sexual way but friendship too.
You need to learn who you are as a person, learn what makes you happy, work towards your goals, not base your happiness on other people.

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Work on your own self love and confidence, not for guys or comparison but for yourself.

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Maybe more like admiration? Like you admire who they are and it inspires you. It sounds kinda like jealousy but idk if I’d call it that unless you’re bitter about it.

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