I've been sexually active for around a year now and I have a recurring issue which is getting under my skin. I've never been able to finish when having sex, no matter which partner (I've had 4) and it's really buggin me. I'm not too sure if it's a psychological issue or not, I've never faced any abuse and I'm currently with someone who is beyond caring and great in bed but I still can't let go.

I've never been into touching myself which is probably due to laziness however I have a high sex drive! I just can't understand it and when he asks if I came I just feel like crying😭 I know I get close but then I purposefully move and lose it, has anyone experienced this?