help please

ashley

okay so me and my bf (both 14) have been dating for a year and we mess around like A LOT, but we have never had sex. the messing around feels great and we never told anyone. last night he fingered me and now my vagina is swollen (not bad at all) but just a tiny bit. is that okay/ normal bc i really can’t go to a doctor? (it’s also slightly sore)