Mother in Law Drama

My husband and I are newlyweds, but have been together for about 4 years. He is an amazing guy, but the one downfall that came with him is his mom. In the beginning, she was nice and thoughtful, but as time went on, she began to change towards me. She became callous, extremely self-centered, and she talks about me behind my back to other family members.

I feel bad for my husband because he wants us to get along, but I am dealing with years of her taking jabs at me and telling me that she’s “done with me.” I really don’t think I have done anything to her, but I can say that I’m not as sweet as I used to be based upon how shes treated me (she even ignored me/didn’t acknowledge me at our wedding). It’s hard to know what to do, and especially since my husband and I want to start trying for a baby soon, I don’t know where to go from here. I’ve tried talking with her and making amends, but it’s hard for me to let go of the past, and she never tries to change her behavior. Any suggestions? Advice?