I regret the way I stopped talking to my ex. I feel like we could have stayed good friends.

But, I was getting married and he asked me to end contact. I did. Very abruptly. I just sent a very short email saying I wasn’t going to talk anymore. No explanation.

I found out later that my husband’s ex was trying to get back with him. He was actively considering it and almost ended things with me.

He chose me in the end. It still hurts that he asked me to end contact while he was in contact with his ex. Mine was innocent. His was not.

But, that’s just a scar I have to re-get over.

I’ve been married for a few years now.

This isn’t normally something that bothers me. Just every once in a while, it comes back up.

I love my husband. We are happy. I trust him, and am loyal to him.