My boyfriend and I are not currently in a long distance relationship. With that being said, he graduates from college in a year. I will still be in college. He wants to live out west, and his manager keeps telling him if he doesn’t do it once he graduates he probably won’t ever. He doesn’t know what he wants to do, he doesn’t want to end our relationship, but I feel selfish for wanting him to stay another year so I can move with him. Someone please help me. Good advice.