So I feel like my boyfriend is having a hard time letting go of the past. He was onced engaged with this lady he thought he had a babywith. The DNA said he was not the father. But he's always been tramatized about this situation. We been together 4 years. I am 20 and he's almost 30 and this situation happened 8 years ago. He brings up the past here and there cause his mom brings it up too. But he wants to commit to having a baby with me. How can he commit when he's having a hard time. He's probably going to make me do DNA test! How do I help us?