Grandparents

Anyone else have experience with grandparents completely not listening to your wishes and just doing what they want? As far as schedules and naps etc. mine think it’s ok to keep her up for hours and hours and she’ll “nap when she wants” . They also let her nap and sleep in their arms every time - she’s 2 months old

It’s so annoyii because we get her independent where we can lay her down in her pack n play when she’s asleep or something and she comes home and is 10x as needy and just reverts back

So tempted to not let her stay with them anymore