Not feeling great

Hi ladies,

I am 18 weeks. I don't know if is just me, but I find doing sonars so sore and uncomfortable.

We have not seen the gender. 12 weeks the baby moved way to much. On our 16 week the ambilical cord was laying in between the legs and we could not see anything. Being a bit of plus size I still haven't started showing and dreading the 21 week apppointment. Having a bit of a pooch tummy. I don't want to feel uncomfertable again.

I wish we could see the gender too. One of my girlfriends is 12 weeks, she is skinny. She saw her gender today...

I think being plus size makes it harder to see the gender....

When did you find out the gender? And how did you feel during your first sonars?