Prayers for an answer from God!!

So here's the deal. DH and I have been married for 5 yrs now and have been ttc for 2 1/2. I'm finally at that point of looking into adoption,but my husband thinks I'm trying to force/rush the process of our promise (multiple people having a vision of me holding a baby,one said God told him I would be having a baby soon,but that was over a year ago now). I just want the perfect will of God for our lives,and I'm open to waiting for a biological child,but if God wants us to adopt first,then I'm willing to follow that path. I'm just so uncertain right now because I keep feeling this strong pull towards adoption,it keeps coming up in random conversation from coworkers to me who don't even know that DH and I are discussing it,and other things like that. But DH keeps wanting to put it off,saying he thinks I'm just trying to rush Gods process. I really want to wait on an answer from God on what to do,but then I hear those sermons of taking that step of faith in those moments when we feel called but don't have a for sure answer. I've been praying for close to 6 months now on what path we should take,but I still feel like God hasn't given me a clear path to take,and I don't want to do anything to ruin my marriage, but I also don't want to delay the calling for a child if that is what God is calling us to...