Why are women so rude to other women TTC?
I see it so often. Here or any other pregnancy forum.
If one woman experiences something atypical to another woman by golly they’re all there to let her know what’s “impossible” with her own body. Because clearly, everyone knows your body better than you do.
I’ve known women who got BFP’s very early on, some got them just before AF, some after missed AF, and some who never produce Hcg in their urine. Who are these women to tell someone else they’re wrong?
You start feeling symptoms 6-7-8 dpo? Yeah, might as well keep that to yourself because here come the slew of women to tell you it’s impossible.
You get a blatant BFP at 9dpo, you’re 100% sure or your dates, and you only BD once, absolutely no other opportunity for it to have happened. 10% of the feedback is congratulations while the other 90% are saying
“You MUST have you’re dates wrong”
“Congrats but that’s impossible”
“You ovulated earlier than you thought”
“That is WAYYYY too early”
Quit trying to tell other women who know their own bodies what is IMPOSSIBLE or WAY TOO EARLY when it wouldn’t be typical for you. Not everything is black and white or by the book.
Some women love to tell another that they are wrong and put them down. Either, congratulate or scroll on.
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