Rant!!

It amazes me how absolutely selfish some mothers can be. Smoking, drinking, and doing drugs while pregnant. If you're TTC or find out you're pregnant and weren't "trying" then quit the crap and grow up. You're effecting the growth and well being of your child. You are responsible for the life inside of you.. So take care of it. Many women who were smokers and so on quit cold turkey when they found out and they were perfectly fine. And don't bother trying to comment that so and so smoked or whatever and had a baby and it was perfectly healthy... Any guilty women will find one story to justify her wrong doing so save it. There's so much research on the effects of it on your unborn child. Now I get that some women are trying to quit and that's great but the women who refuse I have no sympathy for you. And when you get on here and complain about wanting it so bad thats just selfish... Like come on.. Every woman gives things up for her baby, your not the first and you won't be the last. Now talking about how difficult the journey is that's one thing but asking if you can cheat and have one cigarette and so forth just blows my mind. And if you are that hung up on yourself then why have a baby, because the sacrificing doesn't stop after birth. Grow up! And to the ppl who will comment that I don't understand.. I used to be a smoker and a drinker but I got myself together when I got married because I wanted a family and a better life.