“Jealous” Friend

A friend of mine had a very early miscarriage. I found out I was pregnant about two weeks later. I was there for her and I understand what she’s going through. We talked about things and I decided not to talk much about it since she’s not sure how to cope.She went on to post that it wasn’t fair that I still had my baby and that she wants nothing to do with me because she only sees me as a pregnant person. She’s been trying and has had complications in the past and decided she didn’t want another one yet ... but I never once was mad at her for trying when I couldn’t yet. I just now started to try and got lucky on the first go. I’m honestly hurt she couldn’t tell me personally and chooses to ignore me even though I am not taking about anything baby or pregnancy related due to the circumstances. I think what hurts the most is that she thinks it’s unfair that I haven’t lost mine. From now on im not going to reach out to her until she reaches out to me.

Note: I didn’t get pregnant to spite her. She claims I got pregnant RIGHT after she lost hers when in reality my ovulation window was already over before I even knew she was pregnant. I let her know that I didn’t want to tell her yet and that I gave her a bunch of advice and what apps I use and what vitamins I take and that she can always come to me for advice. I told her that I’d be there for her no matter what. I think things should of been worded a little differently. I know everyone copes differently and when I had an early loss it was hard but I’d never wish loss on anyone else . Sorry the post was so long I have nowhere else to post this.