4 days late and neg pregnancy test

Me and my husband broke up a year ago we have two beautiful little boys that were both planned 😍 we both moved on. I ended up going back out with an ex from high school. We tried for a baby for 5 months and no luck. My last period was june 10th. We tried for 2 weeks straight but i did take a plan b pill 1 time because I actually started backing out but this was before i was fertile. We talked and said maybe we should have one so everyday on my fertile days we did it. i was suppose to get my period july 6th and still nothing. I am having milky discharge but my cervix is kind of reachable but soft. I am super bloated as well. How long did it take you females to get a bfp im getting all negatives.