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It sounds like he is wanting you to try something new so that he won't feel guilty about trying something new. Maybe he feels once you experiment then he'll be able to also 😞
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Hello everyone, i have a question, im so confused :(
what would you do or say if your husband ask you to get a sexual massage from another men?? Would you do it?? Do you think is normal??
He's been my only one, we're been together for 13 years, i wasn't his only one obviously., and he's telling me to try new things but i think this is over my limit because i dont have experience in sex i don't know what to say, think or do.
I talked to him yesterday that im not letting any man to touch me and he got really upset. What do you guys think??
Im over reacting??
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My husband would never ask that. He would be pissed if some other guy touched me in a sexual way. I would ask him what his real reason for asking you that. He might be feeling guilty for something. I could be totally wrong but that's off and that's where my mind would go if my husband suggested that to me.
Je
I agree with everything you said! My man would be beyond upset!
no i think its great u love him and your respecting your husband marriage by not letting another man touch u he should totally respect thaf and be glad he has such a faithful honorable wife and maybe try different things in bedroom ask him if theres something new hed like to try but that it doesnt involve another man or woman
ha
somethings not right then if u he wont talk to u maybe yall should consider counseling
Li
i asked him yesterday if he want we can try new things together, we can go to a sex shop or something but just him and me, and he said there's no more new things to try
ha
that not thaf sorry
Uh, your body....your choice. If you don't want a massage, don't get one. If he pushes it....there's an issue there. Not every relationship is the same, but this is not something my husband would ever suggest for me and if he tried to force the issue...I would be pretty suspicious of something. Hope you guys can have an open conversation about this.
Li
i know thats why i said no to him, i would feel violated
I'm sorry but that seems a bit creepy/strange to me. I would certainly have a conversation with him as to why he would ask such a thing. He should be the one to please you, not other men. But that's just my opinion.
Li
i think the same way, and if i do it is going to take us to a different level later on.
When i got engaged to my now husband, i was getting acupuncture /message from a man. He asked me to stop that now that he was goung to be my hubby. As respect to him it was an easy decision I've never regretted. I found a different acupuncturists. I dont think it is safe to a relationship to try and get turned on by anyone except my hubby.
Me
ask him to teach you what he likes sexually too. afterall the only man you should have to please sexually is him anyway.
Me
that is quite a guilt trip.... sorry to hear that :( talk to him to find out his reasoning, but i wouldn't recommend doing it for him no matter what the reason. good luck hon!
Li
im just really upset to hear him, "ok fine lets do it your way its always been your way anyway"
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