Nothing wrong with not eating kids, but you won't find a doctor to tie your tubes, or anything more. Your best bet is to look for one who will do an iud, but even that's hard to find. Jist be super careful and use birth control and condoms until you're older.
Getting sterilized in the Bible Belt.
When I was younger I was very shy and introverted and anxious. This translated into adulthood as a general dislike of talking to people. I don't mind others, being in large crowds, being in loud places, going places I've never been; I actually love those things. I just don't like talking if I don't have to and further I don't often know how to respond when someone talks to me. I've learned to love myself the way I am and I've been able to make some strong connections to other quiet people in my life.
Before this gets too long, basically, I don't want children. When I was 20 I finally realized that it's a choice. I don't have to have children just because it's expected of me. I suppose, growing up in the Bible Belt, where families are heavily valued and often seen as "a married couple after they have babies", I just assumed that if I ever wanted love I would have to have babies even though I was never particularly interested in children and actually rather disliked them. It was just something "people do". It never made sense. If I don't want them, know for a fact I will resent them for disrupting and changing my life in ways I don't want it to, why should I do it? My reasons are numerous and counting, and as the years pass I am more and more certain of my decision and know it will not change. I know myself. I know I don't want children. I don't see the point in putting off the inevitable and want to pursue surgery.
However, because I am still young I get the impression from family and friends that I will not be taken seriously if I go asking for surgery. Does anyone have advice about how to go about getting it done? How do I get someone to take me seriously?
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