So, my mom called me today telling me my grandma wants to come see my uncle today and tomorrow. We both live in the same town and 4 hours away from my mom and grandma. My husband and i had already made plans 1 week in advance to go to a waterpark on saturday (30 minutes away) and she knew cause i told her. We have 2 kids and its already hard enough to have extra money for a date, have the time, and find a babysitter who can watch 2 kids (4 yrs & 1 yr). Now that my mom is coming i dont know what to do 😣. I feel bad if i dont spend the whole day with my mom but we had also been looking forward to this for a long time but i also dont see my mom alot. Also, we have a BBQ today with friends which was also already planned so i dont know if ill see her for along time since i dont know when they are actually coming.