Is it possible ...

Is it possible to be in a relationship with someone and love them but also love someone else. But that person you’re in love with only wants to be friends and avoids the conversation all together when the conversation is presented to him

I love my bf but I don’t really connect with him like I do with my best friend who I love. But he doesn’t want to be with me. I wish I could take back everything I said to him about my feelings because he ignores it every time I tell him how I feel and if the opportunity presented itself I would be with him if I could but he doesn’t want that. I want the feelings to go away for him but as friends we talk everyday but I feel he’s getting more and more distant with me 😓

help.