So I am a 22 year old gal who has only ever had relationships with men. I made out with a girlfriend once because I wanted to and it was weird but I think because we were friends and not very close, also she didn’t seem to be into it while it was happening. ANYWAY..

I’ve always kind of just felt love is love and attraction is attraction but lately (I’m in a loving relationship with a man) I’m really thinking hard about what it would be like to be with other ladies and it’s REALLY starting to turn me on in ways it hasn’t before.

The more thought I give it the more I feel I might be bi, because I definitely also like men; but there’s a shitty subconscious part of me that feels like figuring this out now and the fact that it’s not an obvious orientation outside of being straight makes me feel like it isn’t valid.

Also because I haven’t been with a woman yet. But thinking about it makes me really excited and eager to try it.

I’m just confused and could use some camaraderie. VOTE ABOVE AND COMMENT BELOW 🤗